SPR 4: Things Fall Apart

In Okonkwo's clan honor and becoming known in his land as a leader or warrior was considered on of the most important part of life. His Father was a man who was in-debted to many people, and instead of working hard to pay off the debts he would spend whatever money he received on parties of celebration. In the clan this was absolutely uncalled for and Okonkwo's Father meant very little to the people in his clan because of these actions. At a very young age Okonkwo worked hard to plant and grow the best yams. Okonkwo also was a great warrier and wrestler making his leadership rather high amongst his clan.

Okonkwo married three wives. By marrying more women your title amongst your clansman would become higher. After he was exiled he had planned to marry even more women by building extra huts on his compound. Each of his wives had children who Okonkwo cared for in his own way. His eldest son Nwoye acted like Okonkwo's Father and this made him very upset. Okonkwo loved his son but knew how his Father was a disgrace to his clansmen and did not want a son who would represent the same. His daughter Enzima was very special to him because she knew how to connect with Okonkwo. His daughter was very mature and grounded, and this reminded Okonkwo of himself. Everything the clan did revolved around honor and a form of power to show who could be the greatest of great.